"This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad!"
And that's what we did. We visited with Ma'am who came down to visit, we went to the pool and swam, we took a nap, we went to Dairy Queen for a treat and we ended the day with BLT's and some yummy Iowa corn on the cob.
So yes, this post is late. But we rejoiced in the day. Thank you, God for giving us such a wonderful day. Now? It's time for rest!
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Shuffle Saturday: Save St. Patrick's Church
This past Tuesday, I ventured back with my boys to Glidden to visit St. Patrick's Church on Cedar. It is at risk of being demolished. While it isn't an active parish, they still occasionally have Mass there. And my dad always makes sure to sing at Mass, even if it means he has to schedule a day off of work. It's that important to our family.
Why? Because it's where our ancestors worshiped. It's where our ancestors are buried. It's our roots.
It's a beautiful Church, isn't it?
And it was great to see my boys, Sean and Liam, exploring the grave site of his Great Great Great Grandfather Michael, who came from Ireland.
It almost looks like Liam is praying, doesn't it? I wouldn't be surprised if he was.
My boys have learned a lot about saving history. They've learned a lot about their past. They know they're Catholic. They know they come from a farm family. They love their Irish heritage and they love St. Patrick's Church.
If you're interested in helping the cause, please feel free to sign the petition to Save St. Patrick's Church. Thank you!!
Why? Because it's where our ancestors worshiped. It's where our ancestors are buried. It's our roots.
It's a beautiful Church, isn't it?
And it was great to see my boys, Sean and Liam, exploring the grave site of his Great Great Great Grandfather Michael, who came from Ireland.
It almost looks like Liam is praying, doesn't it? I wouldn't be surprised if he was.
My boys have learned a lot about saving history. They've learned a lot about their past. They know they're Catholic. They know they come from a farm family. They love their Irish heritage and they love St. Patrick's Church.
If you're interested in helping the cause, please feel free to sign the petition to Save St. Patrick's Church. Thank you!!
Friday, July 29, 2011
Food Friday: Peanut Butter Cupcakes
Everyone loves peanut butter cups. Who wouldn't? It's peanut butter, it's chocolate, it's delicious. So when I had my surgery, a good friend of mine brought over dinner--and dessert.
The cupcakes were SO good I had to get her recipe. Just get your favorite box chocolate cake mix. I used triple chocolate fudge cake from Betty Crocker. Bake the cupcakes as directed on the box. Now, for the frosting...
1/2 cup butter
1 cup creamy peanut butter
4 cups confectioners' sugar
4 tablespoons of milk
In a large bowl, beat butter and peanut butter until light and fluffy. Slowly beat in the confectioner's sugar one cup at a time, mixing the milk in to keep the frosting creamy. If necessary, add a little more milk until the frosting reaches a good spreading consistency.
After piping the frosting on the cooled cupcakes, top it off with a mini peanut butter cup. And eat one fast. Because as soon as others see them, they'll go quick!
Keep them in the fridge, otherwise they'll "sweat". Enjoy!
The cupcakes were SO good I had to get her recipe. Just get your favorite box chocolate cake mix. I used triple chocolate fudge cake from Betty Crocker. Bake the cupcakes as directed on the box. Now, for the frosting...
1/2 cup butter
1 cup creamy peanut butter
4 cups confectioners' sugar
4 tablespoons of milk
In a large bowl, beat butter and peanut butter until light and fluffy. Slowly beat in the confectioner's sugar one cup at a time, mixing the milk in to keep the frosting creamy. If necessary, add a little more milk until the frosting reaches a good spreading consistency.
After piping the frosting on the cooled cupcakes, top it off with a mini peanut butter cup. And eat one fast. Because as soon as others see them, they'll go quick!
Keep them in the fridge, otherwise they'll "sweat". Enjoy!
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Toy Thursday: Recall on the Fisher-Price Little People Builders Load 'n Go Wagon
I woke this morning to the following email in my inbox. Thankfully, we don't have this toy. If you do, please follow the recommendations in the letter. And share this post with friends who have children in case they have this toy.
Thanks and stay safe!
Your friends at Mommy's Recess
Dear Fisher-Price Parents & Grandparents,
As a valued member of our email program, we’re contacting you directly with important information you may need to know. We’re voluntarily recalling the Little People® Builders Load ’n Go Wagon, in cooperation with the United States Consumer Product Safety Commission and Health Canada. We need to modify the wagon’s handle because children may be injured if they fall on it.
The affected wagon has a yellow handle and a Little People Builders decal on the side. You’ll find the product number – P8977 – on the underside of the wagon.
Your child’s safety is our top priority. Because of our ongoing commitment to listening to consumer feedback and evaluating all of our products, we determined this corrective action was necessary.
If you have this product in your home, please stop using it and go to www.service.mattel.com/us/recall.asp for assistance from our Consumer Relations Team and detailed information about how to order a free repair kit, or call Fisher-Price at 1-800-432-5437, Monday through Friday, between 9 a.m. - 6 p.m., E.T.
We’re committed to working hard to earn your continued support.
Sincerely,
Your friends at Fisher-Price
Thanks and stay safe!
Your friends at Mommy's Recess
Dear Fisher-Price Parents & Grandparents,
As a valued member of our email program, we’re contacting you directly with important information you may need to know. We’re voluntarily recalling the Little People® Builders Load ’n Go Wagon, in cooperation with the United States Consumer Product Safety Commission and Health Canada. We need to modify the wagon’s handle because children may be injured if they fall on it.
The affected wagon has a yellow handle and a Little People Builders decal on the side. You’ll find the product number – P8977 – on the underside of the wagon.
Your child’s safety is our top priority. Because of our ongoing commitment to listening to consumer feedback and evaluating all of our products, we determined this corrective action was necessary.
If you have this product in your home, please stop using it and go to www.service.mattel.com/us/recall.asp for assistance from our Consumer Relations Team and detailed information about how to order a free repair kit, or call Fisher-Price at 1-800-432-5437, Monday through Friday, between 9 a.m. - 6 p.m., E.T.
We’re committed to working hard to earn your continued support.
Sincerely,
Your friends at Fisher-Price
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Wash Wednesday: Brushing Your Kids Teeth!
Lately, I have been having trouble getting Judah to brush his teeth. As his two year molars come in, brushing has been hit and miss. What normally is a routine hygiene moment with our Thomas Train tooth brush and tooth paste has turned into a tackling session to even open his mouth.
A while back, I read this article a friend wrote regarding kids and brushing teeth. Being a mom and a dentist, Megan outlines the importance of parents ensuring kids brush their teeth. Here is what she has to say. To view the original article, visit Dental Public Service Announcement.
"I have been working as a dentist for just about 8 months now - not a long time, but enough to get a sample of the different patients that come to a general dentist. I generally see a couple kids a day on average, and the dental I.Q. of parents really varies. Today I saw five kids that made up two families - these are families at one end of the education spectrum. In the first family, there were two children, ages 4.5 and almost 3. When I checked their teeth, I found thirteen cavities in the older boy's teeth. In younger girl's teeth, I found none. In the second family, there were three children, ages 6, 10, and 12. I found 7 cavities and one abscessed tooth in the youngest boy, one cavity in the middle boy's teeth, and no cavities in the oldest girl's teeth. The moral of the story is that girls take better care of their teeth. Ha! Just kidding. No, seriously, what the two boys have in common is that both sets of parents think that their kids are capable of brushing their teeth on their own. It is frustrating to find so many cavities in such young children, and it is really easy to blame parents. However, I think it is partly the dental community's fault for not providing better education for parents. So, this is my PSA for parents on how to care for your child's teeth!"
A while back, I read this article a friend wrote regarding kids and brushing teeth. Being a mom and a dentist, Megan outlines the importance of parents ensuring kids brush their teeth. Here is what she has to say. To view the original article, visit Dental Public Service Announcement.
"I have been working as a dentist for just about 8 months now - not a long time, but enough to get a sample of the different patients that come to a general dentist. I generally see a couple kids a day on average, and the dental I.Q. of parents really varies. Today I saw five kids that made up two families - these are families at one end of the education spectrum. In the first family, there were two children, ages 4.5 and almost 3. When I checked their teeth, I found thirteen cavities in the older boy's teeth. In younger girl's teeth, I found none. In the second family, there were three children, ages 6, 10, and 12. I found 7 cavities and one abscessed tooth in the youngest boy, one cavity in the middle boy's teeth, and no cavities in the oldest girl's teeth. The moral of the story is that girls take better care of their teeth. Ha! Just kidding. No, seriously, what the two boys have in common is that both sets of parents think that their kids are capable of brushing their teeth on their own. It is frustrating to find so many cavities in such young children, and it is really easy to blame parents. However, I think it is partly the dental community's fault for not providing better education for parents. So, this is my PSA for parents on how to care for your child's teeth!"
1. Brush your child's teeth. If your child is not able to write in cursive, they don't have the manual dexterity to properly brush their teeth on their own. Encourage them to brush on their own, then check their brushing and give them feedback. There is a fun product you can buy called "Inspector Hector Plaque Detector" - have your child do their best to brush their teeth, then have them rinse with this mouthwash. The areas that they are missing will turn blue, so they can see where they need to improve. This isn't something you need to do every day, but it can be fun for everyone, even Mom and Dad, to see how good they are at brushing!
2. Brush your child's gums. Many cavities in baby teeth are found at the gum line, as this is where plaque or build-up accumulates.
3. Use toothpaste with fluoride once your child has teeth. Starting with the first baby teeth, use a small smear of fluoridated toothpaste (smaller than a pea). Older children that can spit can use more toothpaste.
4. Give your child milk at meals and water in between meals. There is no need to give your child juice as there is no nutritional benefit of juice - it is full of empty calories that can stunt your child's growth, and it can cause cavities! Even watered down juice still has sugar in it.
5. Please do not put anything but water in a bedtime cup or bottle. Milk, juice, Kool-Aid, etc. will coat their teeth all night long and feed the bacteria that cause cavities.
6. When giving your child a treat, pick something that they will eat and be done with it. Suckers, hard candy, grazing on M&M's for a long period of time - all of these will continue to coat your child's teeth with sugar, effectively feeding the bacteria for a longer period of time.
7. Take your child to the dentist for regular check-ups, starting at 6 months from when their first tooth comes in, or when they turn one. There are many dentists who don't want to see kids this young, and I get that. It's not easy, as many children are in the "stranger danger" phase and will cry when the dentist tries to look in their mouth. If you are consistently following the previous guidelines, you may not need to take your child to the dentist until age 3 or 4; however, for those parents who are unaware of how to care for their child's teeth, it can be too late if they wait until the child is 3 or 4. The bottom line is this: be proactive and look in your child's mouth when you brush their teeth. If you see dark spots, chips, discolored teeth, gum bumps or pimples, call up your dentist and have them take a look. It is so much easier to fix a little cavity than to deal with a hurting child with an infected tooth!
Megan is a second generation dentist, graduating from the University of Iowa with her DDS in 2010. More importantly, she is a wife and a mom of two little boys who understands what it is like to try brushing your kids teeth. For more reading on life with two boys, visit Brummers.
Megan is a second generation dentist, graduating from the University of Iowa with her DDS in 2010. More importantly, she is a wife and a mom of two little boys who understands what it is like to try brushing your kids teeth. For more reading on life with two boys, visit Brummers.
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Tip Tuesday: Turning Chores into a Learning Moment!
There are many different things that you can do as a stay at home mom as you raise your children. The options can be overwhelming. And when you throw homeschooling into the mix, things get even more complicated. Because of this, I think it's important to have a clear picture of what goals your are shooting for with your children.
Having these goals in mind will impact, among other things, how you discipline your children, how you spend your time, and how you spend your money. Although we are not able to take all of the credit (or at times all of the blame) for how our children turn out, the Lord has given us a tremendous responsibility in shaping our children.
Some of the goals for my children are to grow to love the Lord, understand what it means to love and show respect to others, and to be responsible and productive citizens. As I mentioned earlier, those goals strongly influence the way I make decisions in our home and how I help guide the kids.
So for tip Tuesday, I thought I’d share something I started before our oldest learned to read: teaching your kids how to sort laundry. I think it’s never to early to learn to be a helper and have family responsibilities.
All I did was purchase an $10-$15 laundry hamper at Walmart and tie on cards to help the kids know which hamper their clothes go in. For my non-readers, I tried to help them by color coding the cards. Red for dark clothes, yellow for lights, and white for whites. (I have a separate hamper for jeans and rags – especially since we farm.)
After some repeated guidance and re-explaining, they were soon sorting their own laundry. As an added benefit, I found that it gave way to some good beginning reading lessons. And it also helped my husband know which hamper I would like things in!
Rebecca Book is a stay at home wife and mom. She has been married to her husband, Ethan, for 10 years. They have 4 children, which they home school: Caleb – age 7, Hannah – age 5, Isaac – age 2, and Jonathan – 6 months. Together they run a pasture based farm with grass-fed heritage beef, pasture/wood lot heritage pork, grass-fed lamb, and pastured poultry.
Becca and Ethan have kept blogs The Beginning Farmer's Wife, and The Beginning Farmer describing their experience of starting their farm and having a frugal lifestyle. They still update their blogs when opportunity allows, but now they primarily focus much of their Internet time on managing their farming business, Crooked Gap Farm.
Monday, July 25, 2011
Make Monday: Green Catus!
Just a few short weeks ago I was introduced to the blog Paint & Prozac and our daily lives have not been the same since! This fantastic blog features lots of very basic art projects that a non-artsy parent can do with his or her little ones. Some of the projects are even appropriate for kids as young as 6 months, so you know they are not time-intensive, messy or complicated.
The first one I tried out with my 16-month-old daughter was this adorable prickly cactus, and it went remarkably well!
ITEMS NEEDED:
paper
scissors
rice
green food coloring
Ziploc bag
glue
plastic or cardboard box (must close completely, clear would be great if available)
We happened to have some fairly thick brown paper lying around, but any sort of paper or cardboard would do. You could even let your child color or finger paint it beforehand! We started off by cutting a cactus shape out of the paper (which I sketched in pencil beforehand). Make sure your cactus will fit inside the box you have chosen.
Next, color the rice! Place several handfuls of rice into a Ziploc baggie and add a few drops of green food coloring. (We probably used too much, but it made our cactus a very vibrant green!) Let your child shake the bag and squish and swirl the rice around. If you’re working on color recognition, this would be a great time to point out the new color of the rice and have your little one think of other things that are green.
After that, place the cactus cut-out inside your box and cover it in glue. Allow your child to pour or sprinkle the colored rice over the top of the cactus. Then, closing the box securely, have him or her shake it to make sure the rice gets all over the cactus! While shaking, we I took some time to discuss cacti – telling her that cacti grow in the desert, where it’s very hot, and explaining that that’s where her great grandparents live.
We peeked in a few times before we were satisfied with the rice coverage. Then we admired the cactus for a few moments and placed it on the counter top to dry. Clean-up involved dumping the remaining rice into the trash, and putting away our supplies.
This project was fun and simple, and required virtually no clean-up, which is one thing I look for when selecting projects for my daughter. If there is any chance an activity will require me to pull scrape out of her hair, vacuum up rice or cereal bits, scrub crayon marks off my tile floor, or anything else remotely strenuous or annoying, it’s just not going to happen. We’ll color instead.
*MOM TIP* I will share, though, that I typically ease the burden of craft time clean-up, by stripping my daughter down to a diaper. We also often move to either the kitchen floor or the bathtub as they’re the most easy-to-clean spaces in the house. My child can make a mess of herself finger painting in the tub and once she’s finished, I can hose her and the mess off and move on to something else just as quickly as she does. Perfect!
Anyway, if you have any crafting tips or activity ideas, please share! We love to create!
Lindsay is a relatively new mother, still awkwardly navigating this busy world of Crayola and Mother Goose. She is thrilled to be working from home in the area of graphic design and social media during naps and after bedtime, spending the rest of her waking moments changing diapers, reading books that rhyme, dancing to songs about food, painting with her fingers and love-love-loving her adorable, brilliant, hilarious daughter, Soleil. Other than motherhood, Lindsay enjoys bargain hunting at garage sales and writing on the side. For more fun girl moments, visit Musings and Tidbits.
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Salvation Sunday: Laughter from Heaven...and Poop
We ventured back to my parents house this weekend, since we didn't visit much on Sunday. We visited on Saturday, went to Church and then went to Carroll for dinner at the Pizza Ranch.
After dinner, we were going to go home. But I thought we'd swing by the cemetery and visit my grandfather's grave. My grandfather and I were very close growing up. I was always his "Blondie". He passed away my Senior year of High School.
The boys were excited to see their "great grandpa Pat" and I was excited to show them his headstone. I was starting to feel the tears well up in my eyes when I noticed my arm, where I was holding the toddler, felt...moist.
I looked and sure enough, he had a blow out. Where do I change a diaper in the middle of a cemetery? Well, right where I am. I called out to my husband who was still in the car and had him bring the diaper bag.
I made the toddler lay down, right where we were and changed his diaper. It was SO gross, as blowouts usually are. And just then I started laughing...and I knew my Grandfather was laughing as well. And my Great Aunt and Great Uncle, who are buried right there too...
So just when I thought I was going to cry, I laughed. All because of poop...and the strange things we laugh at.
After dinner, we were going to go home. But I thought we'd swing by the cemetery and visit my grandfather's grave. My grandfather and I were very close growing up. I was always his "Blondie". He passed away my Senior year of High School.
The boys were excited to see their "great grandpa Pat" and I was excited to show them his headstone. I was starting to feel the tears well up in my eyes when I noticed my arm, where I was holding the toddler, felt...moist.
I looked and sure enough, he had a blow out. Where do I change a diaper in the middle of a cemetery? Well, right where I am. I called out to my husband who was still in the car and had him bring the diaper bag.
I made the toddler lay down, right where we were and changed his diaper. It was SO gross, as blowouts usually are. And just then I started laughing...and I knew my Grandfather was laughing as well. And my Great Aunt and Great Uncle, who are buried right there too...
So just when I thought I was going to cry, I laughed. All because of poop...and the strange things we laugh at.
Saturday, July 23, 2011
Shuffle Saturday: Politics in Iowa...With Kids??
I love living in Iowa. I'm an Iowa farm girl at heart, spending much of my childhood summers playing at the family Century farm, dropping rocks down the well, swimming in the (clean) cattle trough (we didn't have livestock, but the silver containers made good swimming pools) and learning how to drive a stick in the cornfield...I won't say how old I was. :)
I am amazed at the different paths my life has lead me down. In high school, I wasn't even interested in politics. I knew my parents had a "Ross Perot" sign in their front yard, but that was about it.
Fast forward a few years and I worked as a canvasser for RPI (Republican Party of Iowa) my last semester of college- and after graduation from Iowa State (where I was a Conservative Political Opinion Columnist), I worked for the Iowa House Majority Leader. After session ended, I went to work for Senator Grassley's campaign and was elected Secretary and then Co-Chair of the Polk County Republican Party. All by the time I was 25.
I've made some really great friends in the political world (including my co-author of Mommy's Recess) and had the chance to meet some really great Political figureheads.
And now that I'm a mom, I can share this love of politics with my kids. My five year old already thinks that a Democrat is a dirty word (not by our teaching, he's just come to that assumption) and he thinks it's neat to see people on CSPAN who are also in a picture with mommy and daddy hanging on the wall.
I love bringing my kids to events...while it is a little stressful for me to manage all three, I'm lucky enough to always have a friend at any political function who is more than willing to watch a kid or two.
And it makes for some really great photo ops. How cool would it be to say, "And here's a picture of me with President so and so back in 2012." Now, I'm not saying I've decided who I'm supporting in the Iowa Caucus or even the Straw Poll...but I have an idea. With my work as Communications Director for CAPE PAC, I really can't publicly endorse anyone, which is fine. It gives me more of a chance to keep an open mind and open heart.
Yesterday we attended the Pucks and Pizza with Pawlenty event. The boys loved watching the Hockey game, the pizza and Liam enjoyed meeting "that Fox News guy" aka Tim Pawlenty. When Liam told him what he called him, T-Paw laughed and said, "I like that! I might have to use that!"
And, of course, we got some great photos.
So with all of the candidates criss-crossing the state, take your kids out to listen to the candidates and get a picture. They'll learn, you'll learn and you'll have a good time!
I am amazed at the different paths my life has lead me down. In high school, I wasn't even interested in politics. I knew my parents had a "Ross Perot" sign in their front yard, but that was about it.
Fast forward a few years and I worked as a canvasser for RPI (Republican Party of Iowa) my last semester of college- and after graduation from Iowa State (where I was a Conservative Political Opinion Columnist), I worked for the Iowa House Majority Leader. After session ended, I went to work for Senator Grassley's campaign and was elected Secretary and then Co-Chair of the Polk County Republican Party. All by the time I was 25.
I've made some really great friends in the political world (including my co-author of Mommy's Recess) and had the chance to meet some really great Political figureheads.
And now that I'm a mom, I can share this love of politics with my kids. My five year old already thinks that a Democrat is a dirty word (not by our teaching, he's just come to that assumption) and he thinks it's neat to see people on CSPAN who are also in a picture with mommy and daddy hanging on the wall.
I love bringing my kids to events...while it is a little stressful for me to manage all three, I'm lucky enough to always have a friend at any political function who is more than willing to watch a kid or two.
And it makes for some really great photo ops. How cool would it be to say, "And here's a picture of me with President so and so back in 2012." Now, I'm not saying I've decided who I'm supporting in the Iowa Caucus or even the Straw Poll...but I have an idea. With my work as Communications Director for CAPE PAC, I really can't publicly endorse anyone, which is fine. It gives me more of a chance to keep an open mind and open heart.
Yesterday we attended the Pucks and Pizza with Pawlenty event. The boys loved watching the Hockey game, the pizza and Liam enjoyed meeting "that Fox News guy" aka Tim Pawlenty. When Liam told him what he called him, T-Paw laughed and said, "I like that! I might have to use that!"
And, of course, we got some great photos.
So with all of the candidates criss-crossing the state, take your kids out to listen to the candidates and get a picture. They'll learn, you'll learn and you'll have a good time!
Friday, July 22, 2011
Food Friday: Slow Cooker Southwest Chicken Tacos!
This recipe is GREAT for in the hot summers when you don't want to heat your oven, takes less energy and produces less heat in your crockpot. It is also great to make in the winter when you want something warm and cozy in your tummy!
Ingredients
1 pkg small corn or flour tortillas
1 onion, diced
1 16oz can black beans, drained
1 16oz can kidney beans, drained
1 8oz can tomato sauce
1 8oz can corn, drained
2 14.5-oz cans diced tomatoes w/chilies ( usually use Rotel)
1 packet taco seasoning
1 T cumin
1 T chili powder
1 packet taco seasoning
1 T cumin
1 T chili powder
2 garlic cloves, minced
3-4 boneless skinless chicken breasts
1 package shredded cheddar cheese
3-4 boneless skinless chicken breasts
1 package shredded cheddar cheese
sour cream to garnish
Directions
Combine beans, onion, corn, tomato sauce, cumin, chili powder, garlic, taco seasoning in crockpot. Place the RAW chicken breasts on top and cover. Cook on low for 8-10 hours. Right before you serve, use a fork to shred the chicken and stir right back into the mix. Serve over fried corn tortillas or soft flour tortillas and top with whatever toppings you desire. Some ideas would be shredded cheddar cheese, sour cream, jalapenos, fresh cilantro, guacamole, etc.
Joanna is the chief domestic engineer at home, holding the fort together for her family. Her and her husband of nine years have adopted three beautiful, sweet children. In her free time, she obviously loves cooking and baking! And especially enjoys sharing her cooking and baking ideas with family, friends, and strangers. For great new meals and treat ideas, visit
JoJo's Num Nums.
Directions
Combine beans, onion, corn, tomato sauce, cumin, chili powder, garlic, taco seasoning in crockpot. Place the RAW chicken breasts on top and cover. Cook on low for 8-10 hours. Right before you serve, use a fork to shred the chicken and stir right back into the mix. Serve over fried corn tortillas or soft flour tortillas and top with whatever toppings you desire. Some ideas would be shredded cheddar cheese, sour cream, jalapenos, fresh cilantro, guacamole, etc.
Joanna is the chief domestic engineer at home, holding the fort together for her family. Her and her husband of nine years have adopted three beautiful, sweet children. In her free time, she obviously loves cooking and baking! And especially enjoys sharing her cooking and baking ideas with family, friends, and strangers. For great new meals and treat ideas, visit
JoJo's Num Nums.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Toy Thursday: The Breastfeeding Baby Doll
Have you heard about the breastfeeding baby doll? If not, here's a link.
According to the news reports I've read, the doll comes with a halter top for the mommy with two flower blossoms where nipples would be. When you hold the baby up to the flowers, it makes a suckling noise. The doll has been a best seller in Europe and is now just coming to America.
And some people are furious about this. They claim we're sexualising our young girls with this doll. Really? I've breastfed all three of my boys and there is nothing sexual about breastfeeding.
Secondly, what's more sexualising to young girls? This doll or those Hooker Bratz dolls that show girls how to dress like members of the show "Jersey Shore"? Come on, America. It's time to wake up.
When Liam (now 5) was 2, I bought him a Cabbage Patch Doll. Some family members weren't too pleased that I was buying my boy a doll. My thinking? A boy with a doll teaches him how to be a good father. I'm pretty sure my father in law wanted to melt into the floor when Liam noticed the bottle that came with the baby, tossed it aside and lifted his shirt to feed his baby. That was classic.
The doll says it teaches girls to “express their love and affection in the most natural way possible, just like mommy!” And I don't see anything wrong with that. If more little girls saw more women breastfeeding and had this doll, maybe our dependence on formula would disappear, along with a slew of allergies, medical problems and possibly even childhood obesity.
Now, I probably won't buy this doll for my boys, but if I had a little girl, I'd be the first one in line getting it for her. More girls need to learn to breastfeed so it comes naturally (as it should) when they become mothers.
According to the news reports I've read, the doll comes with a halter top for the mommy with two flower blossoms where nipples would be. When you hold the baby up to the flowers, it makes a suckling noise. The doll has been a best seller in Europe and is now just coming to America.
And some people are furious about this. They claim we're sexualising our young girls with this doll. Really? I've breastfed all three of my boys and there is nothing sexual about breastfeeding.
Secondly, what's more sexualising to young girls? This doll or those Hooker Bratz dolls that show girls how to dress like members of the show "Jersey Shore"? Come on, America. It's time to wake up.
When Liam (now 5) was 2, I bought him a Cabbage Patch Doll. Some family members weren't too pleased that I was buying my boy a doll. My thinking? A boy with a doll teaches him how to be a good father. I'm pretty sure my father in law wanted to melt into the floor when Liam noticed the bottle that came with the baby, tossed it aside and lifted his shirt to feed his baby. That was classic.
The doll says it teaches girls to “express their love and affection in the most natural way possible, just like mommy!” And I don't see anything wrong with that. If more little girls saw more women breastfeeding and had this doll, maybe our dependence on formula would disappear, along with a slew of allergies, medical problems and possibly even childhood obesity.
Now, I probably won't buy this doll for my boys, but if I had a little girl, I'd be the first one in line getting it for her. More girls need to learn to breastfeed so it comes naturally (as it should) when they become mothers.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Wash Wednesday: Strep Throat
This weekend was a busy one. We did our shopping, made cupcakes, went to a family reunion...on top of the weekend chores of laundry, cleaning etc. Sunday night, after all of the dust settled I noticed "the tickle". You know, that unmistakable tickle in the back of your throat. The one that strikes fear in your heart. The one that makes you think, I'm in for a long week.
And I was right. Monday morning I woke up with a fever, achey, chills, stiff neck and swollen glands. I didn't have the usual rash on my chest that went with strep throat but I was pretty sure it was strep. I had to cancel my appearance at a meeting as I didn't want to get anyone else sick. I convinced my husband to get off of work early and my mother in law to take the older two boys so my husband could take me to the Doctor.
The doc walked in, took a look in my throat and said, "Yep. Fever, swollen glands, do you want me to swab you or just treat it." I nodded and said, "Just treat the strep doc. No need to test." He added that it was "going around" and wrote a script for a Z-Pack.
Day three on the meds, I'm starting to feel a little better. My mother in law has been great, taking the two big boys for the last two days so I can rest. However, my husband has had to work which leaves me with a teething, crabby and restless infant.
I wish moms could get sick days. But we can't.
Now I'm in the process of trying to clean EVERYTHING I've touched over the last few days. The Clorox Wipes are getting a work out, that's for sure. Doorknobs, phones, computers, remotes....everything is getting cleaned. My house smells like lemon Clorox. But that's okay. I wouldn't wish strep on my worst enemy.
The thing I hate the most about being sick? Not being able to remember what it feels like to feel "normal". I'm hoping that comes in the next few days. I just hope I've quarantined myself enough that no one else gets it.
And I was right. Monday morning I woke up with a fever, achey, chills, stiff neck and swollen glands. I didn't have the usual rash on my chest that went with strep throat but I was pretty sure it was strep. I had to cancel my appearance at a meeting as I didn't want to get anyone else sick. I convinced my husband to get off of work early and my mother in law to take the older two boys so my husband could take me to the Doctor.
The doc walked in, took a look in my throat and said, "Yep. Fever, swollen glands, do you want me to swab you or just treat it." I nodded and said, "Just treat the strep doc. No need to test." He added that it was "going around" and wrote a script for a Z-Pack.
Day three on the meds, I'm starting to feel a little better. My mother in law has been great, taking the two big boys for the last two days so I can rest. However, my husband has had to work which leaves me with a teething, crabby and restless infant.
I wish moms could get sick days. But we can't.
Now I'm in the process of trying to clean EVERYTHING I've touched over the last few days. The Clorox Wipes are getting a work out, that's for sure. Doorknobs, phones, computers, remotes....everything is getting cleaned. My house smells like lemon Clorox. But that's okay. I wouldn't wish strep on my worst enemy.
The thing I hate the most about being sick? Not being able to remember what it feels like to feel "normal". I'm hoping that comes in the next few days. I just hope I've quarantined myself enough that no one else gets it.
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Tip Tuesday: Need Envelopes?
When I was in college, I worked in a scrap book and stamp store. Talk about the coolest job ever. I learned many techniques, skills, and acquired a lot of neat ideas from the owners. One neat tip I inherited was where to get envelopes for all my home made cards.
Did you know that most card companies throw away random envelopes?
After the craft store job, I worked at a book store. Our retail items also included shelves of cards for sale. As part of my job, I had to keep the cards organized and restocked. You will be surprised to discover how many people actually buy the card without the envelope, thus producing an excess of random envelopes. And since every card comes with its corresponding envelope, what can you do with the extra but throw them out.
Another friend several years later who worked for Hallmark stocked the brand new cards for each season at the local department store. When I approached her about the extra envelopes, she confirmed that indeed they just get thrown away. She mentioned that she did however saved a few time to time for teachers to use for class room projects. I asked her then if she could set a few aside for me to use with my home made cards. And did she save them for me, all those leftover envelopes in different colors, shapes, and sizes. She even gave me some gift bags that did not sell.
As you can see in the picture above, I am well stocked with envelopes for life. Since I Recycle Cards, I can certainly use the extra envelopes. After I make a card from card stock, I just open up my drawer and pull out an envelope to go with it.
So the next time you need envelopes, find the clerk who organizes the cards at your local department store or gift shop. Usually these retail clerks work for the companies directly and have scheduled hours in the store for stocking (ask about it). Inquire politely too see what they do with the leftover envelopes. Should they throw them out, ask then if you can recycle and reuse them. At the very least, you are saving a few trees and some money!
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Monday, July 18, 2011
Make Monday: String Painting Techniques!
While I was in 4-H in high school, I entered this child development project featuring home made recipes for kids play activities. To add to the display, I decorated the front cover of my report splattering paint all over the title page. Tapping the paint brush to drip dots one by one of yellow, red, and blue paint, the cover sheet turned into a delightful, original painting.This last week, Judah and I got the finger paints out once again. He really enjoys creating with his hands, especially getting the dirty and smearing different shades of colors all over the paper. This time though, I added a new painting technique using a string for a similar effect to the paint splatters.
Putting bright and bold colors of washable finger paint onto a paper plate, we took some cording (used for sewing) and dragged it through the piles of paint. We then lifted the string to the paper and again dragged it around on the paper making lines of color. The cording also added an extra dimension to the line like little beads. Judah enjoyed this new technique to use with the paints. He dragged the string back and forth, around in circles, and even added a hand print for good measure!
Remember the sky is the limit to painting techniques. Trying new effects stimulates creativity and originality. And we also now have some really cool wrapping paper to use for future gifts!
Happy Painting!
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Salvation Sunday: Saving Our Roots
Earlier this year you heard me talking about Saving the barn. And we did it. While the barn was sold to a private church (for $1) and moved, it was not destroyed. Now the school looks so generic. Almost like the office building just across the street. The one defining unique building is gone, but not lost to history.
In an interview the night they were moving the barn, a reporter asked me "If your group hadn't stepped in, do you think we'd be here today?" I responded, "No. I think it was our involvement and with the help of the power of the press, we exposed the Community to the injustice that was being done by the School Board.
Now that the barn has been saved, I have turned my attention to St. Patrick's Church. You can read the blog here. I posted about how St. Patrick's Church always recharges my spirit right here on Mommy's Recess. The Bishop has written a letter about the future of the Church. I hope that I can do the Church the same preservation I gave the barn. I've even contacted some of my "barn folk" to see if they'd be interested in helping us out.
Whether it's a barn or a Church, it's my roots. And I'm determined to save them. I'm a Catholic girl where my farming roots run deep. Our history must be preserved.
In an interview the night they were moving the barn, a reporter asked me "If your group hadn't stepped in, do you think we'd be here today?" I responded, "No. I think it was our involvement and with the help of the power of the press, we exposed the Community to the injustice that was being done by the School Board.
Now that the barn has been saved, I have turned my attention to St. Patrick's Church. You can read the blog here. I posted about how St. Patrick's Church always recharges my spirit right here on Mommy's Recess. The Bishop has written a letter about the future of the Church. I hope that I can do the Church the same preservation I gave the barn. I've even contacted some of my "barn folk" to see if they'd be interested in helping us out.
Whether it's a barn or a Church, it's my roots. And I'm determined to save them. I'm a Catholic girl where my farming roots run deep. Our history must be preserved.
Saturday, July 16, 2011
Shuffle Saturday: Chore Cooperation!
When I was growing up, I slept in like any usual teenager. I would finally wake up to a quiet house, walk downstairs for breakfast, and find a note lying on the kitchen table. The note was always that dreaded "to do" chore list with a short note from our parents saying that they would be back shortly after running a few errands. And while they were gone, we needed to vacuum, dust, and unload the dishwasher among many others.
While most families grew up watching Saturday morning cartoons, other families got ready for that Saturday soccer tournament. And we had seasons where we did just that. However, I remember at our house growing up, Saturday mornings meant those dreaded chores and it seemed like a lot of them.
This begs the question, when do you do your chores at your house? or run errands?
Most Saturdays now, we run our errands in the morning and come home to rest in the afternoon. It is not until after we rest that we start working on some things around the house that require all our cooperation.
Occasionally, we have a "to do" list or a project that demands our attention most of the day. For example, last weekend, my husband shampooed and vacuumed the carpet in the house. He also changed the toilet seat lids with new ones. Most of these big projects are easier to do when daddy is home on the weekends.
As far as daily chores, I like to get those done during the weekdays and early evenings so as to free up our weekends for family fun. I have learned that those dreaded chores are easier to do in late afternoons when energies and mood levels tend to peak, doing a little at a time each day. By four o'clock in the afternoon, everyone needs to work out some energy, including the kids. You are able to accomplish more together with this excess energy. And that is when I start supper, put in my daily load of laundry, and tidy a bit around the house.
But I am not perfect. In fact, I did not do my dishes last night which means I have more to do tonight. Hmmm....better go do that.
While most families grew up watching Saturday morning cartoons, other families got ready for that Saturday soccer tournament. And we had seasons where we did just that. However, I remember at our house growing up, Saturday mornings meant those dreaded chores and it seemed like a lot of them.
This begs the question, when do you do your chores at your house? or run errands?
Most Saturdays now, we run our errands in the morning and come home to rest in the afternoon. It is not until after we rest that we start working on some things around the house that require all our cooperation.
Occasionally, we have a "to do" list or a project that demands our attention most of the day. For example, last weekend, my husband shampooed and vacuumed the carpet in the house. He also changed the toilet seat lids with new ones. Most of these big projects are easier to do when daddy is home on the weekends.
As far as daily chores, I like to get those done during the weekdays and early evenings so as to free up our weekends for family fun. I have learned that those dreaded chores are easier to do in late afternoons when energies and mood levels tend to peak, doing a little at a time each day. By four o'clock in the afternoon, everyone needs to work out some energy, including the kids. You are able to accomplish more together with this excess energy. And that is when I start supper, put in my daily load of laundry, and tidy a bit around the house.
But I am not perfect. In fact, I did not do my dishes last night which means I have more to do tonight. Hmmm....better go do that.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Food Friday: Strawberry Tossed Salad!
Brace yourself for the heat wave to hit this weekend into next week. When we get such a heat wave, I have noticed that we tend to not be hungry. Even the thought of turning on the oven warms up the house to same heat index outside. Judah and I took a short walk today to the mail box and were sweating by the time we got there.
Salads provide not only healthy options but also make a delightful, refreshingly cool side dish for such hot summer nights. The salad seems light enough for summer and yet seasonal enough for the Christmas table. Go to your local farmers market this weekend for some lettuce and fresh fruit (strawberries are nearing the end of season depending on your time zone) to make this Strawberry Tossed Salad. This recipe adds to any main poultry or pork dish.
The original recipe is listed below. As you might have discovered, I cook with what ingredients I have on hand though and rarely ever measure. The adapted recipe as eaten by my own family and friends is also listed below and I might add that they liked it.
Original Recipe
1/2 cup of vegetable oil
1/3 cup sugar
1/4 cup red wine vinegar
1 garlic clove, minced
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon paprika
Pinch of white pepper
8 cups torn romaine
4 cups torn Bibb or Boston lettuce
2 1/2 cups sliced fresh strawberries
1 cup (4 ounces) shredded Monterrey Jack cheese
1/2 cup chopped walnuts, toasted
Combine the first seven ingredients in a jar with tight-fitting lid; shake well. Just before serving, toss the salad greens, strawberries, cheese, and walnuts in a large salad bowl. Drizzle with dressing and toss. This recipe makes 6-8 servings.
Adapted Recipe
1/2 cup of olive oil
1/4 cup sugar
1/4 cup Balsamic vinegar
1/4 teaspoon garlic salt
1/4 teaspoon paprika
Pinch of white pepper
1 package of baby spinach
2 1/2 cups sliced fresh strawberries or fresh blueberries
1 cup (4 ounces) shredded Mozzarella cheese
1/2 cup chopped walnuts
Combine the first six ingredients in a jar with tight-fitting lid; shake well. Just before serving, toss the salad greens, strawberries, cheese, and walnuts in a large salad bowl. Drizzle with dressing and toss. This recipe makes 6-8 servings.
Salads provide not only healthy options but also make a delightful, refreshingly cool side dish for such hot summer nights. The salad seems light enough for summer and yet seasonal enough for the Christmas table. Go to your local farmers market this weekend for some lettuce and fresh fruit (strawberries are nearing the end of season depending on your time zone) to make this Strawberry Tossed Salad. This recipe adds to any main poultry or pork dish.
The original recipe is listed below. As you might have discovered, I cook with what ingredients I have on hand though and rarely ever measure. The adapted recipe as eaten by my own family and friends is also listed below and I might add that they liked it.
Original Recipe
1/2 cup of vegetable oil
1/3 cup sugar
1/4 cup red wine vinegar
1 garlic clove, minced
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon paprika
Pinch of white pepper
8 cups torn romaine
4 cups torn Bibb or Boston lettuce
2 1/2 cups sliced fresh strawberries
1 cup (4 ounces) shredded Monterrey Jack cheese
1/2 cup chopped walnuts, toasted
Combine the first seven ingredients in a jar with tight-fitting lid; shake well. Just before serving, toss the salad greens, strawberries, cheese, and walnuts in a large salad bowl. Drizzle with dressing and toss. This recipe makes 6-8 servings.
Adapted Recipe
1/2 cup of olive oil
1/4 cup sugar
1/4 cup Balsamic vinegar
1/4 teaspoon garlic salt
1/4 teaspoon paprika
Pinch of white pepper
1 package of baby spinach
2 1/2 cups sliced fresh strawberries or fresh blueberries
1 cup (4 ounces) shredded Mozzarella cheese
1/2 cup chopped walnuts
Combine the first six ingredients in a jar with tight-fitting lid; shake well. Just before serving, toss the salad greens, strawberries, cheese, and walnuts in a large salad bowl. Drizzle with dressing and toss. This recipe makes 6-8 servings.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Toy Thursday: It's a Woot-off!!
If you haven't checked out Woot! today is the day. It's a Woot-off! What's that mean? Basically Woot! is trying to sell out their overstock. That means they sell one item until it sells out---and then it's something new.
You can snag some great deals...and it is a flat $5 shipping. So if it is a good deal, grab three of it and put it in your gift closet--and still only pay $5 shipping.
It's a good time to buy ahead for Christmas. I've also gotten items (for as little as .01) and put the games/toys in the Toys for Tots bin at Christmas. Be sure to check out Kids Woot and Wine Woot too!!
Have fun shopping!
You can snag some great deals...and it is a flat $5 shipping. So if it is a good deal, grab three of it and put it in your gift closet--and still only pay $5 shipping.
Have fun shopping!
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Wash Wednesday: Papers Overtaking your House?
Papers are my nemesis in life. I detest papers lying around in my kitchen, cluttering up the counter in piles. Somehow you go through them, yet those white sheets somehow end up in another stack requiring your attention. Junk mail, receipts, invitations, bills, school papers....they all seem to threaten taking over your house.
Have you ever noticed that junk mail and papers seem to multiply in your house? In particular, I find that in spite all organizational efforts, papers continue to find their way into my kitchen, making random piles across my counter (especially at super time).
After helping a friend lately sort her own office papers, I realized that this is a common problem for every household. You will always have that dreaded pile of papers. My friend described her fate as the papers "just keep piling up." "I do not know what to keep and where to put them." Does not this overwhelming feeling sound familiar?
My friend (like so many others) desires to tackle the source of the problem and implement a system that can continue to lessen the paper load (literally). You have to figure out what works for you and your own household. Define the problem and then resolve to fix it. Here are a few hints to help you tackle your paper clutter.
1. Do all your bill paying and banking online. This cuts down on the number of receipts, bank statements, and financial records you need to file away in your desk.
2. Keep important papers and documents in a safety deposit box. This keeps these documents safe and clean. Keep the key in your purse for an occasional pick-up of passports for a trip.
3. Utilize an empty drawer in your kitchen for loose leaf papers and notes so that the clutter is out of site and work space. This drawer needs to be sorted once a week (or when full) and followed up on. Then take the remaining papers to the office area to file directly.
4. Have a spot in your desk intended for address changes and business contact information. Every so often take a pile out and update your electronic address book so that you can throw the papers away.
5. Keep and store only health information, tax papers, important family documents, and house information past a year.
6. Utilize electronic resources for to do lists, remember lists, and other lists. Evernote provides a "memo" pad environment to family phones so that all can access and update grocery lists and to do lists. Bookmark and file your favorite information on the Internet for just about any subject instead of keep the "brochure."
7. Color coordinate your online calendar for each family member. Hook it up to your husband's calendar at work too. Assign the same colors to file away school papers as they are brought home.
8. Back up all your photos to another source whether via an online directory or copying a backup disc for the safety deposit box. Scan in your old black and white family photos to electronically archive. Then take three ring binders with archival cover sheets to store remaining photos. Use archival boxes to store additional documents. Store these boxes in a dark, dry environment only (never the basement).
9. Have a spot for office supplies handy. Organize these items into cubicles or separate drawers for easy access. More specifically, have a place for postage and envelopes so that you do not have to dig for them when needed.
10. Always take care of the junk mail upon receipt by throwing it into the recycle bin. Never let the mail pile up unattended.
These are some of the items my friend and I are implementing in our attempt to recover the house. Consider attacking your papers instead of letting them attack you!
Have you ever noticed that junk mail and papers seem to multiply in your house? In particular, I find that in spite all organizational efforts, papers continue to find their way into my kitchen, making random piles across my counter (especially at super time).
After helping a friend lately sort her own office papers, I realized that this is a common problem for every household. You will always have that dreaded pile of papers. My friend described her fate as the papers "just keep piling up." "I do not know what to keep and where to put them." Does not this overwhelming feeling sound familiar?
My friend (like so many others) desires to tackle the source of the problem and implement a system that can continue to lessen the paper load (literally). You have to figure out what works for you and your own household. Define the problem and then resolve to fix it. Here are a few hints to help you tackle your paper clutter.
1. Do all your bill paying and banking online. This cuts down on the number of receipts, bank statements, and financial records you need to file away in your desk.
2. Keep important papers and documents in a safety deposit box. This keeps these documents safe and clean. Keep the key in your purse for an occasional pick-up of passports for a trip.
3. Utilize an empty drawer in your kitchen for loose leaf papers and notes so that the clutter is out of site and work space. This drawer needs to be sorted once a week (or when full) and followed up on. Then take the remaining papers to the office area to file directly.
4. Have a spot in your desk intended for address changes and business contact information. Every so often take a pile out and update your electronic address book so that you can throw the papers away.
5. Keep and store only health information, tax papers, important family documents, and house information past a year.
6. Utilize electronic resources for to do lists, remember lists, and other lists. Evernote provides a "memo" pad environment to family phones so that all can access and update grocery lists and to do lists. Bookmark and file your favorite information on the Internet for just about any subject instead of keep the "brochure."
7. Color coordinate your online calendar for each family member. Hook it up to your husband's calendar at work too. Assign the same colors to file away school papers as they are brought home.
8. Back up all your photos to another source whether via an online directory or copying a backup disc for the safety deposit box. Scan in your old black and white family photos to electronically archive. Then take three ring binders with archival cover sheets to store remaining photos. Use archival boxes to store additional documents. Store these boxes in a dark, dry environment only (never the basement).
9. Have a spot for office supplies handy. Organize these items into cubicles or separate drawers for easy access. More specifically, have a place for postage and envelopes so that you do not have to dig for them when needed.
10. Always take care of the junk mail upon receipt by throwing it into the recycle bin. Never let the mail pile up unattended.
These are some of the items my friend and I are implementing in our attempt to recover the house. Consider attacking your papers instead of letting them attack you!
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Tip Tuesday: Recycle Cards!
There are still a few people out there that send cards in the mail wishing warm sentiments to family and friends. A handwritten note is almost a lost art in this age of quick emails and texts. Even more rare is a home made card expressing your friendship and love for the special occasion or just because.
Perhaps that is why like most people, I save those few cards I receive from loved ones. And few people with the exception of my grandma even send out cards on a daily basis with news from home.
A few years ago, my third grade teacher, knowing that I rubber stamp home made cards, cleaned out years and years of collected holiday cards. I tore off the insides of the cards and saved the remaining pictures on the front to recycle into new home made cards.
I still do that today. I keep the note in my archived momentos, tearing off the front for further creativity to strike. I then throw them into a drawer in my craft closet for my next card making day.
Using my stamps, odds and ends ribbons and fabrics, and embellishments, I come up with a whole new card. Reducing the amount of store bought cards at almost $5.00 a card, I instead recycle fun designs and scenic pictures off of cards. I stamp a saying inside and bingo, I have a brand new and blank card.
People cherish the few minutes it took to actually make a hand made card and write a note. In the process you save money buying cards for celebrations and holidays. And you also recycle tons of paper, saving a few trees along the way.
And for an avid scrapbooker, you save money on a ton of stamps and embellishments by using resources within reach. The sky is the limit as you learn to be creative with what you have. I love setting out cut out cards and thinking of a new designs with what I already have, almost like a challenging puzzle.
Sometimes, I splurge on cheap blank cards in the dollar section at Target and Michael's for gluing on these recycled items. Other times, I use card stock from the copy paper you can find in the office store (you do not need acid free for cards unless you are using photos). I then add ribbons, cheap brads, or leftover stamps items from a previous project. Other times, I punch out an object or use a lost button for an additional embellishment.
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Monday, July 11, 2011
Make Monday: Rocks!
"Dad Rocks" is the project Judah did for Father's day this year. It turned out to be so much fun, so I thought I would pass it on to those who needed something for upcoming birthdays and the such.
First, we collected small stones of all shapes, colors, and sizes around the house, putting them into our plastic sand buckets. At first we soaked the rocks in the bucket to rid of some of the excess dirt. Next, Judah especially had fun using a sand box strainer to wash off the rocks freeing some of the mud with the hose.
Staying outside, we dried the rocks by patting them down with rags. We then laid them out on our little table, admiring the shapes and colors, and even talking about similarities and differences. Meanwhile, I took a marker and wrote "Dad Rocks" onto a piece of blue construction paper. I then squeezed a line of Elmer's (washable) glue onto the line for Judah to put the rocks. Judah took different rocks (and tree seeds), gluing them to the paper.
Daddy was so surprised to see the "gift" Judah had made. In fact he likes it so much, that it is going into a shadow box frame to be displayed in his office at work. And Judah had so much fun collecting rocks (our favorite pastime), washing them, and learning to glue onto paper.
This activity certainly helped pass the morning. It was easy too. Clean up was kept to a minimal being outside on a mild summer day.
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Salvation Sunday: Marriage is Between a Man and a Woman....And Bob VanderPlaats
Yep. I'm getting on my soapbox again. Late last week I heard about Bob VanderPlaats and his marriage vow he's asking Presidential candidates to sign. I read it and then couldn't believe someone would actually sign it. While I agree with a lot of it, I would never sign anything like that.
If you want to read the vow, click here.
But a quick review was provided by the Wall Street Journal," Mr. Vander Plaats's "Marriage Vow" asks signers to agree to 14 policy positions aimed at supporting traditional, heterosexual marriage. They must commit to marital fidelity in their own lives, to oppose the federal recognition of gay marriage, and to fight prostitution, pornography and Sharia law.
Mr. Vander Plaats said he wants the pledges returned by Aug.1 so he can announce who signed, and who didn't, before the state's Ames Straw Poll, a landmark on the presidential nominating calendar. "It's pretty clear cut," he says. "Why wouldn't they sign it?"
I mentioned it on my facebook page and said, "Dear BVP, Your "marriage vow" document does nothing for me. I pledged my faithfulness to my husband in front of family, friends and God. And if it is good enough for the Pope, I think it should be good enough for you. Just sayin."
And I stand by that. While I don't have anything against him, I don't see where Bob VanderPlaats fits in the picture. When I made my vows, I meant them. That should be enough. For me...for any Presidential candidate and for Bob VanderPlaats.
If you want to read the vow, click here.
But a quick review was provided by the Wall Street Journal," Mr. Vander Plaats's "Marriage Vow" asks signers to agree to 14 policy positions aimed at supporting traditional, heterosexual marriage. They must commit to marital fidelity in their own lives, to oppose the federal recognition of gay marriage, and to fight prostitution, pornography and Sharia law.
Mr. Vander Plaats said he wants the pledges returned by Aug.1 so he can announce who signed, and who didn't, before the state's Ames Straw Poll, a landmark on the presidential nominating calendar. "It's pretty clear cut," he says. "Why wouldn't they sign it?"
I mentioned it on my facebook page and said, "Dear BVP, Your "marriage vow" document does nothing for me. I pledged my faithfulness to my husband in front of family, friends and God. And if it is good enough for the Pope, I think it should be good enough for you. Just sayin."
And I stand by that. While I don't have anything against him, I don't see where Bob VanderPlaats fits in the picture. When I made my vows, I meant them. That should be enough. For me...for any Presidential candidate and for Bob VanderPlaats.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Shuffle Saturday: Lifeguards ARE NOT Babysitters
I am sick and tired of it. I'm tired of parents blaming other people. Maybe I'm still angry about the Casey Anthony verdict. Maybe I'm just plain fed up with people pointing fingers. But place blame where blame is due.
A death of a child is always a sad thing. Always. And I don't want to cause any unnecessary pain or hurt to parents who have lost children. I guess it just makes me angry when people are always so willing to lay blame on others, rather than taking it upon themselves.
Recently, a five year old drowned in a city pool in our town. And when I read that, my heart ached. That child is the same age as my oldest. And my son is fearless when it comes to the pool and water. However, I ALWAYS make sure he has the swimmie vest on AND I (or my husband) are with him AT. ALL. TIMES.
On my facebook, I shared the link how the child had died and wrote, "So sad. He's the same age as Liam. As a former lifeguard, I know they cannot watch EVERY child in the water. PLEASE, if you take your kids swimming, watch them AT ALL TIMES."
A family member responded, "I agree! Those Life Guards also need to remember the purpose of their job."
Um, no. Parents need to remember their jobs. I responded with, "Lifeguards aren't babysitters. If you want a babysitter, hire one."
I was a lifeguard for two summers at our city pool. I can't even begin to tell you how often we were used as a babysitter. Lifeguards ARE NOT babysitters. We are lifeguards. Still, that didn't stop parents from dropping their kids off at the pool at noon and picking them up at 6.
If we had to close the pool due to weather, forget about it. These kids had no where to go because, "mom and dad are at work and we're supposed to stay here until they come and get us." Great. And then there were the kids who were banned from the pool for a few days-weeks at a time for behavior. When the parents found out, they came down and chewed us out with "What am I to do with him/her during the day? I have to work! You should do your job and watch my kid swim!" Maybe if they'd discipline their child like they did the lifeguards, their kid wouldn't have been kicked out for behavior issues in the first place. Just sayin.
And yes...that is me...three babies and 14 years ago.
SO here's the deal. Lifeguards were not there when the child was conceived. You do not pay them an hourly rate for each child they watched. More people would go into lifeguarding if that was the case. Yes, it is their job to watch the kids and keep them safe. BUT, it is YOUR job as a parent to watch your child AT ALL TIMES.
It's time for people to stop placing blame and start taking responsibility. Lifeguards are not babysitters, parents need to be held responsible.
A death of a child is always a sad thing. Always. And I don't want to cause any unnecessary pain or hurt to parents who have lost children. I guess it just makes me angry when people are always so willing to lay blame on others, rather than taking it upon themselves.
Recently, a five year old drowned in a city pool in our town. And when I read that, my heart ached. That child is the same age as my oldest. And my son is fearless when it comes to the pool and water. However, I ALWAYS make sure he has the swimmie vest on AND I (or my husband) are with him AT. ALL. TIMES.
On my facebook, I shared the link how the child had died and wrote, "So sad. He's the same age as Liam. As a former lifeguard, I know they cannot watch EVERY child in the water. PLEASE, if you take your kids swimming, watch them AT ALL TIMES."
A family member responded, "I agree! Those Life Guards also need to remember the purpose of their job."
Um, no. Parents need to remember their jobs. I responded with, "Lifeguards aren't babysitters. If you want a babysitter, hire one."
I was a lifeguard for two summers at our city pool. I can't even begin to tell you how often we were used as a babysitter. Lifeguards ARE NOT babysitters. We are lifeguards. Still, that didn't stop parents from dropping their kids off at the pool at noon and picking them up at 6.
If we had to close the pool due to weather, forget about it. These kids had no where to go because, "mom and dad are at work and we're supposed to stay here until they come and get us." Great. And then there were the kids who were banned from the pool for a few days-weeks at a time for behavior. When the parents found out, they came down and chewed us out with "What am I to do with him/her during the day? I have to work! You should do your job and watch my kid swim!" Maybe if they'd discipline their child like they did the lifeguards, their kid wouldn't have been kicked out for behavior issues in the first place. Just sayin.
And yes...that is me...three babies and 14 years ago.
SO here's the deal. Lifeguards were not there when the child was conceived. You do not pay them an hourly rate for each child they watched. More people would go into lifeguarding if that was the case. Yes, it is their job to watch the kids and keep them safe. BUT, it is YOUR job as a parent to watch your child AT ALL TIMES.
It's time for people to stop placing blame and start taking responsibility. Lifeguards are not babysitters, parents need to be held responsible.
Friday, July 8, 2011
Food Friday: BBQ Ham Balls!
One of our family favorite meals this summer involves a new twist to the regular ham loaf recipe. Most people, like my husband think of ham loaf satisfying a winter hunger on a cold, bleak day. Serving mash potatoes completes this winter meal.
However, since my son will meat balls, I decided to make ham balls - in barbecue sauce. Round ham balls makes this favorite food more fun to eat. And using barbecue sauce adds a savory summer delight to your pot luck picnic. Serve this simple recipe with grilled potatoes wedges and asparagus and you have a yummy meal again and again.
Ham Loaf Ingredients
1 lb ground ham
1 lb ground pork
1/2 lb ground lamb
2 eggs
1 cup graham cracker crumbs
3/4 cup milk
Glaze Ingredients
1/2 can tomato soup or 4 ounces or barbecue sauce
1 cup brown sugar
1/8 cup vinegar
1 teaspoon dry mustard
ketchup
sugar
mustard
For meat, you may substitute 2 pounds of already prepared ground ham loaf from the grocery meat department. For ham loaf, bake mixture in loaf pan at 350 degrees for 1 hour. For ham balls, make round balls of mixture and place in casserole dish to bake for 25 minutes. Mix glaze separately, bringing to a boil before pouring on top of loaf/balls halfway through baking.
However, since my son will meat balls, I decided to make ham balls - in barbecue sauce. Round ham balls makes this favorite food more fun to eat. And using barbecue sauce adds a savory summer delight to your pot luck picnic. Serve this simple recipe with grilled potatoes wedges and asparagus and you have a yummy meal again and again.
Ham Loaf Ingredients
1 lb ground ham
1 lb ground pork
1/2 lb ground lamb
2 eggs
1 cup graham cracker crumbs
3/4 cup milk
Glaze Ingredients
1/2 can tomato soup or 4 ounces or barbecue sauce
1 cup brown sugar
1/8 cup vinegar
1 teaspoon dry mustard
ketchup
sugar
mustard
For meat, you may substitute 2 pounds of already prepared ground ham loaf from the grocery meat department. For ham loaf, bake mixture in loaf pan at 350 degrees for 1 hour. For ham balls, make round balls of mixture and place in casserole dish to bake for 25 minutes. Mix glaze separately, bringing to a boil before pouring on top of loaf/balls halfway through baking.
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Toy Thursday: Summer Reading Programs!
My husband often likes to mention that the ratio of books in the house directly correlates with the future success of your kid. I like to think that since all our book shelves are packed full of books.
Judah and I have been reading for the summer library reading program. Which means we have been coming home every week from story time with a pile of books. We usually sit in the rocker before nap and bed time to read our books on all genres and subjects, depending on what we are into for the week.
The local librarians are very good about introducing us to neat authors and artistic picture books. From week to week we ask for help finding books from trains to musical instruments. This week we are reading Richard Scary's classics, watching out for Goldbug.
We encourage you to explore the love of reading with us. We love reading so much (as you can tell by the number of books in our house), that we thought we would share our favorites with you. We even have earned our prizes. However, our the real prize is our time together going to new places, riding tractors, and learning the alphabet.
Check out these fun reads together as a family!
Judah and I have been reading for the summer library reading program. Which means we have been coming home every week from story time with a pile of books. We usually sit in the rocker before nap and bed time to read our books on all genres and subjects, depending on what we are into for the week.
The local librarians are very good about introducing us to neat authors and artistic picture books. From week to week we ask for help finding books from trains to musical instruments. This week we are reading Richard Scary's classics, watching out for Goldbug.
We encourage you to explore the love of reading with us. We love reading so much (as you can tell by the number of books in our house), that we thought we would share our favorites with you. We even have earned our prizes. However, our the real prize is our time together going to new places, riding tractors, and learning the alphabet.
Check out these fun reads together as a family!
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Wash Wednesday: Getting On My Soapbox About Casey Anthony
So maybe this isn't about actually cleaning or washing anything. But soapboxes can be related to cleaning, right?
I totally did not intend to write about trust and the swimming pool the same day the Casey Anthony verdict came down. That was unintentional...and interesting.
I am tired of people saying that they can't judge Casey because God is the only Judge. Yes, God will judge Casey (and all of us) for our actions. I'm also irritated when non-religious people throw God into it. Really? If you're so concerned about God judging Casey Anthony, what about God judging you? Just sayin.
Do I think she did it? Yes. Maybe it was an accident. But because your baby dies in a pool or in an accident doesn't mean you have to put THREE pieces of duct tape over her mouth and toss her body in the woods. There are better ways to handle it.
Accidents happen. I get it. I know it. But the fact that she didn't report her daughter missing for 31 days? Which is why I was glad to see that someone created a petition to create Caylee's law. According to the website, "there should be a new federal law created called Caylee's Law that will make it a federal offense for a parent or guardian to not notify law enforcement of a child going missing in a timely manner." And I agree.
I'm not a perfect mother. And I admit it. I lose my temper. I even lost a kid once. My five year old ran off at the Minnesota Children's Museum. Not so much ran off, more like hid. But after not seeing him run in the area he was playing in for 2 minutes, I began to panic. I sent my husband searching for him because I was staying with the younger two. When my husband came back empty handed, my heart sunk. I felt dizzy. I felt like I was going to throw up. I grabbed an employee who radioed over to other employees that we were looking for a 5 year old with brown hair and blue eyes. They radioed back that they were already looking for a boy with that description (in my panic, I failed to ask my husband if he'd already contacted an employee). I yelled for him, I hollered, I screamed. Husband went looking on other levels of the museum.
Just then, the employee who stayed with me saw a kid wearing the clothing I described. He said he saw a little boy peek around a corner of a "ant farm maze" and yelled his name. And it was my little boy.
He said he was "just hiding like an ant" as I hugged and kissed him. I was TERRIFIED. It was only minutes but it felt like hours. And I was emotionally drained after that short amount of time. Needless to say, we left the museum. No more fun for the day.
I understand being terrified...but why didn't she contact someone? I couldn't imagine going out and partying while my child was missing. That just boggles my mind. Maybe they didn't have enough proof for murder. But there was neglect. That's for sure. And the fact that she smirked after the verdict was read? She's guilty. She knows it. And she just got away with murder.
For those of you who say you can't judge Casey, would you be willing to let her babysit your children? Think about it. And quit jumping on the parents who are upset at the verdict.
Yesterday was a sad day for good parents everywhere. And a sad day for little Caylee. She didn't deserve it and she doesn't have justice.
I totally did not intend to write about trust and the swimming pool the same day the Casey Anthony verdict came down. That was unintentional...and interesting.
I am tired of people saying that they can't judge Casey because God is the only Judge. Yes, God will judge Casey (and all of us) for our actions. I'm also irritated when non-religious people throw God into it. Really? If you're so concerned about God judging Casey Anthony, what about God judging you? Just sayin.
Do I think she did it? Yes. Maybe it was an accident. But because your baby dies in a pool or in an accident doesn't mean you have to put THREE pieces of duct tape over her mouth and toss her body in the woods. There are better ways to handle it.
Accidents happen. I get it. I know it. But the fact that she didn't report her daughter missing for 31 days? Which is why I was glad to see that someone created a petition to create Caylee's law. According to the website, "there should be a new federal law created called Caylee's Law that will make it a federal offense for a parent or guardian to not notify law enforcement of a child going missing in a timely manner." And I agree.
I'm not a perfect mother. And I admit it. I lose my temper. I even lost a kid once. My five year old ran off at the Minnesota Children's Museum. Not so much ran off, more like hid. But after not seeing him run in the area he was playing in for 2 minutes, I began to panic. I sent my husband searching for him because I was staying with the younger two. When my husband came back empty handed, my heart sunk. I felt dizzy. I felt like I was going to throw up. I grabbed an employee who radioed over to other employees that we were looking for a 5 year old with brown hair and blue eyes. They radioed back that they were already looking for a boy with that description (in my panic, I failed to ask my husband if he'd already contacted an employee). I yelled for him, I hollered, I screamed. Husband went looking on other levels of the museum.
Just then, the employee who stayed with me saw a kid wearing the clothing I described. He said he saw a little boy peek around a corner of a "ant farm maze" and yelled his name. And it was my little boy.
He said he was "just hiding like an ant" as I hugged and kissed him. I was TERRIFIED. It was only minutes but it felt like hours. And I was emotionally drained after that short amount of time. Needless to say, we left the museum. No more fun for the day.
I understand being terrified...but why didn't she contact someone? I couldn't imagine going out and partying while my child was missing. That just boggles my mind. Maybe they didn't have enough proof for murder. But there was neglect. That's for sure. And the fact that she smirked after the verdict was read? She's guilty. She knows it. And she just got away with murder.
For those of you who say you can't judge Casey, would you be willing to let her babysit your children? Think about it. And quit jumping on the parents who are upset at the verdict.
Yesterday was a sad day for good parents everywhere. And a sad day for little Caylee. She didn't deserve it and she doesn't have justice.
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Tip Tuesday: Braving the Pool-Trust
I'm convinced my husband and I are part fish. I grew up across the street from our City Pool, swam in our swim team from the age of 7 and was a lifeguard and swim coach in high school. I have always loved the water.
My husband swam for Lincoln High School (Des Moines) in high school. So it would be natural that we would have kids who love the water, right? Wrong.
Our oldest and our baby are little fish. Our middle son dislikes the pool...but he's warming up.
I've found the full body suits (with the floaters in the front and back) are the best for my boys. My oldest is fearless when it comes to the pool, which, as a former lifeguard, scares me a bit. I have to keep my eyes on him at all times.
The baby is so easy going...and he loves to splash and dunk his own head. But the middle guy, he's just not that into it.
My husband has the "just toss him in" theory, but being a former swim instructor, I know what works. You have to let the kid do it at his OWN pace...with some encouragement. It helps that he has an older brother he watches...and wants to be like.
If you have a toddler who isn't fond of the pool, start slow. Sit on the edge with him/her and let them put their feet in. Have fun splashing and kicking (more the kid than you). Then let them take one step in, all while holding your hand. Trust is key. If you push them in the water and scare them, they won't trust you and they'll hate the pool.
If they want to sit on the edge, on the deck, not get in the pool..don't force them.
Always hang on to them...never let them go...unless they want you to. It's about trust. You want your kids to trust you. Whether it is in the pool or out.
My husband swam for Lincoln High School (Des Moines) in high school. So it would be natural that we would have kids who love the water, right? Wrong.
Our oldest and our baby are little fish. Our middle son dislikes the pool...but he's warming up.
I've found the full body suits (with the floaters in the front and back) are the best for my boys. My oldest is fearless when it comes to the pool, which, as a former lifeguard, scares me a bit. I have to keep my eyes on him at all times.
The baby is so easy going...and he loves to splash and dunk his own head. But the middle guy, he's just not that into it.
My husband has the "just toss him in" theory, but being a former swim instructor, I know what works. You have to let the kid do it at his OWN pace...with some encouragement. It helps that he has an older brother he watches...and wants to be like.
If you have a toddler who isn't fond of the pool, start slow. Sit on the edge with him/her and let them put their feet in. Have fun splashing and kicking (more the kid than you). Then let them take one step in, all while holding your hand. Trust is key. If you push them in the water and scare them, they won't trust you and they'll hate the pool.
If they want to sit on the edge, on the deck, not get in the pool..don't force them.
Always hang on to them...never let them go...unless they want you to. It's about trust. You want your kids to trust you. Whether it is in the pool or out.
Monday, July 4, 2011
"In God we Trust:" Happy Independence Day!
Looking at our nation's history, which we celebrate today on this Independence Day, we are surrounded by God's many blessings. Our founding fathers, in their discernment and wisdom, gave birth to a democratic republic with godly ideals of "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness." Americans uphold freedoms of religion, press, and the right to assemble. Our Lady Liberty represents a mixing pot of all earth's peoples who live out these ideals. Our vast land remains safe in between oceans and contains numerous natural resources, fertile soil, and majestic scenery. Our history is full of entrepreneurs, heroes, and inventors. Truly fellow Americans, we are blessed.
Perhaps this blessing comes from a long history of "trusting in God." These words written on our currency has been written on our hearts through depression, wars, discovery, exploration, and prosperity.
This blessing is NOT guaranteed though!
I like the story of Uzziah (II Chronicles 26) in the Old Testament. He followed God's commands, living in obedience and total trust. And God blessed him with peace, wealth, and honor.
The Bible says a few verses later, "But after Uzziah became powerful, his pride led to his downfall." How true this rings, especially so close to home.
World history shows nations rising up with purpose and strength, only to turn away from God and fall into ruble, never to rise again. Similarly, as individuals we often have everything going for us and in that moment of success we become prideful of our OWN capabilities and abilities, forgetting our God.
Let us not forget this 4th day of July our Independence as a nation as well as our liberty found in Jesus Christ. He has made us rich beyond worthiness. Let us put our "trust" fully back into Him. Perhaps only then we will continue being blessed.
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Salvation Sunday: Freedom
Happy Birthday, America! Every Fourth of July,I think about how I felt on the Fourth of July in 2007.
My husband was in Wisconsin, training to go to Iraq for a year. I attended an Iowa Cubs game with my toddler son and in-laws. And I missed my husband. It was nice to see so many patriotic people. It filled my heart with pride and love. And I got teary eyed when they played "God Bless America".
Every Fourth of July has meant more to me after my husband's service. Every Fourth of July I thank God for keeping my husband safe. I thank God for allowing me to live in such a great country. I thank God for giving us soldiers who are willing to serve, to serve away from their loved ones and even to die so we may be free.
Thomas Jefferson once said, "The God who gave us life, gave us liberty at the same time: the hand of force may destroy, but cannot disjoin them."
Thank you, God, for giving us life and freedom. The Bowmans are a proud military family...and I have a feeling the tradition of serving our Country will continue.
My husband was in Wisconsin, training to go to Iraq for a year. I attended an Iowa Cubs game with my toddler son and in-laws. And I missed my husband. It was nice to see so many patriotic people. It filled my heart with pride and love. And I got teary eyed when they played "God Bless America".
Every Fourth of July has meant more to me after my husband's service. Every Fourth of July I thank God for keeping my husband safe. I thank God for allowing me to live in such a great country. I thank God for giving us soldiers who are willing to serve, to serve away from their loved ones and even to die so we may be free.
Thomas Jefferson once said, "The God who gave us life, gave us liberty at the same time: the hand of force may destroy, but cannot disjoin them."
Thank you, God, for giving us life and freedom. The Bowmans are a proud military family...and I have a feeling the tradition of serving our Country will continue.
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Shuffle Saturday: Evolution of Mommy!
Mommy's Recess has reach over 20,000 views on our blog this week. Here are two average moms chipping away at their journey of motherhood. We don't have the answers just daily experience. And these two moms decided to share this journey with others and I cannot believe how interesting people find this.
What started as an initial idea to archive our "mom" memories, vent our "mom" moments, and share "mom" tips out of survival. All this has been a journey in and of itself. We make projects to pass the hardest days. We share tips in hopes to make our lives easier. We attempt to clean the house for our family one laundry basket at a time. We share our favorite toys (because as moms we do end up playing with them or picking them up). And of course we exchange recipes desperate for menu ideas. Then we celebrate the beginning of the week with a little devotional.
Throughout this process, I have met several new moms, started a play group, archived my recipes on the computer, and honed my computer/Internet skills. If you are a mom, you will celebrate these accomplishments with me for these are achievements among the other things we do as moms. And I appreciate all these who have become apart of our lives.
MOM - the job title really means chef, janitor, chauffeur, manager of a laundry mat, scheduler, professional organizer, seamstress, photographer, bookkeeper, distributor and supplier, decorator, teacher, daycare provider, and chief worrier among many more. The hours sometime suck and the pay rewards only happen on a few rare occasions.
Yet we plug away at life striving to be the best mom in the world. We try to do all and do it well. In this mom world though, we often get caught up in comparing ourselves to other moms. I see this all too often and even succumb to these thoughts.
We put our kids in the best clothes, give them the best toys, and provide the most superior opportunities. We must know all the answers and do everything by the book. We must join this activity. We must keep up with this mom or be like that mom. And we are known to sacrifice our health for that of our children.
If we don't "do" otherwise, then somehow we think we are not good enough and less than the adequate mom. I am hear to tell you that motherhood is not perfect and we do not have to be perfect. The best mom is one who is content being herself and doing what is best for her own individual family. Our mom world then evolves each year with experience and from others experiences.
And this is what Mommy's Recess is all about - not comparing yourself - but helping each other along the journey of motherhood.
What started as an initial idea to archive our "mom" memories, vent our "mom" moments, and share "mom" tips out of survival. All this has been a journey in and of itself. We make projects to pass the hardest days. We share tips in hopes to make our lives easier. We attempt to clean the house for our family one laundry basket at a time. We share our favorite toys (because as moms we do end up playing with them or picking them up). And of course we exchange recipes desperate for menu ideas. Then we celebrate the beginning of the week with a little devotional.
Throughout this process, I have met several new moms, started a play group, archived my recipes on the computer, and honed my computer/Internet skills. If you are a mom, you will celebrate these accomplishments with me for these are achievements among the other things we do as moms. And I appreciate all these who have become apart of our lives.
MOM - the job title really means chef, janitor, chauffeur, manager of a laundry mat, scheduler, professional organizer, seamstress, photographer, bookkeeper, distributor and supplier, decorator, teacher, daycare provider, and chief worrier among many more. The hours sometime suck and the pay rewards only happen on a few rare occasions.
Yet we plug away at life striving to be the best mom in the world. We try to do all and do it well. In this mom world though, we often get caught up in comparing ourselves to other moms. I see this all too often and even succumb to these thoughts.
We put our kids in the best clothes, give them the best toys, and provide the most superior opportunities. We must know all the answers and do everything by the book. We must join this activity. We must keep up with this mom or be like that mom. And we are known to sacrifice our health for that of our children.
If we don't "do" otherwise, then somehow we think we are not good enough and less than the adequate mom. I am hear to tell you that motherhood is not perfect and we do not have to be perfect. The best mom is one who is content being herself and doing what is best for her own individual family. Our mom world then evolves each year with experience and from others experiences.
And this is what Mommy's Recess is all about - not comparing yourself - but helping each other along the journey of motherhood.
Friday, July 1, 2011
Food Friday: Nachos
It's hot. I don't want to run my oven. In my mind, it's counterproductive when I have the air conditioning running. So I'm often faced with the question "What's for dinner?"
You can only serve cold sandwiches and potato salad so many times before the kids begin to grumble. And hubby doesn't want to grill outside when the heat index is triple digits. So what is a mom to serve?
At least once a week I go to my summer usual...nachos. It's quick, easy and tasty. I do have to run the stove-top to brown the beef but other than that, no house heating necessary.
I get a container of nacho cheese and heat it in the microwave. I pour it in a pyrex measuring glass to make it easy to pour. Heat the meat and prep your plate.
Nacho chips go on the plate first, followed by the beef. Pour the melted cheese on top of the beef and finish with lettuce, tomatoes and french dressing. YUM!
The kids don't like "salad" on their dinner, but you can add/subtract whatever you like!
You can only serve cold sandwiches and potato salad so many times before the kids begin to grumble. And hubby doesn't want to grill outside when the heat index is triple digits. So what is a mom to serve?
At least once a week I go to my summer usual...nachos. It's quick, easy and tasty. I do have to run the stove-top to brown the beef but other than that, no house heating necessary.
I get a container of nacho cheese and heat it in the microwave. I pour it in a pyrex measuring glass to make it easy to pour. Heat the meat and prep your plate.
Nacho chips go on the plate first, followed by the beef. Pour the melted cheese on top of the beef and finish with lettuce, tomatoes and french dressing. YUM!
The kids don't like "salad" on their dinner, but you can add/subtract whatever you like!
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